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Wednesday, February 12, 2020

How to deal with parents who spread rumors?

In this video I explained the signs and tips on how to deal with parents who spread rumors about other parents. Some go as far as spreading malicious rumors about your children even. Even though these rumors are very hurtful you have to remember who you are and not let vicious rumors get to you. Even though it could be the hardest thing because your reputation could be destroyed. Always stay true to you and do what you been doing eventually the rumors that was spread about you would be proven as lies. Just remember what we teach our children to ignore bullies. Once they see they aren't moving you they will go their merry way. Now there are those who spread one lie about you they will continue spreading lies about you unfortunately some may even help carry the rumors about you. Don't ever get out of character trust me it can be hard. Address them one on one express to them, it's not o.k. to spread  these rumors. Sometimes letting people see the acts they're doing, they will be embarrassed by their actions. I am going to warn you, there are some if you address  them as they will play as if they are a victim or pretend they have no clue what you're talking about. Like I said before don't let these gossipers get you out of character. You have addressed it, they  won't be spreading anything anymore I promise you. If the rumors are in writing  take legal action.

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Saturday, February 8, 2020

Toxic individuals to keep away from your kids

In this video I explained the types of envious people who plot against your  children because they can't get to you. I also explain signs to look out for. Where does this envious nature stem from? Through what I have seen there are mother's with grown children who might have had their children taken by  cps. The moms who weren't such a great mom to their  children are more than likely to give horrible advice to throw you off. Because they feel if they didn't get to raise their children why should you. They will go out of their way to spread outrageous rumors about you. They would also plot on your children to be harmed. This could be people who also can't conceive a child and people who personally don't like you as well.  Please do extensive background checks on new acquaintances. Stay safe share this  article to anyone who might need to read this. 

Wednesday, February 5, 2020

Why the assumptions on stay at home moms? PART2

This is a part 2 of part one of why  the assumptions on stay at home moms? Part one I discussed what I am doing with my time along with raising my children. In this video I go in depth it might be t.m.i. For some, but I wanted my side of the story heard because quite honestly, these assumptions I was getting were from people really close to me who knew my journey and it's appalling that people's perception of you changes once a woman becomes a stay at home mom. I mean it was like a bad spirit got into these people. Because I never been bashed and insulted the way I have until I became a stay at home mother.  I mean people were dedicated to break us up even. Not all stay at home mother's are lazy, using their men for money, scamming  and the list go on. There is no right way for a couple to conduct their relationship.  It's what they agreed upon. As long as they are happy and it works for them that is all that matters. Who are you to judge?

Friday, January 31, 2020

Postpartum depression is real (Storytime)

In this video I share my story about when I  had post postpartum depression. I share the ways I coped when I had postpartum depression. My daughter is 1 years old now and I am doing just fine. I made this video because I was compelled to share my experience with postpartum depression. Postpartum depression is very real and if left untreated, it can cause a woman to go through a deeper depression. I forgot to mention in the video to seek out help from a therapist. If you have no income they do possibly in your area have non-profit programs that assists with therapy.

Thursday, January 30, 2020

Why I started my YouTube channel?

I am back on YouTube yes, one of my goals this year was to get back into doing YouTube. I  took a much needed break. In this video I talk about " Why I started my YouTube channel? "  The jewelry online store was no longer available. So I started doing reviews and then make up. So my channel has been all over the place these past years. During my break, I decided I am going to stick to promoting my blog and creating content surrounding my blog. Writing has always been my passion ever since I was little when I would be in my room I would write. Writing is how I feel I can express myself better. I also enjoy doing YouTube. I met some amazing people I wish I knew outside of the platform. The reason why I took a break, I went through a crisis/transition and the negative talk from people close to me that keeps replaying in my head like a tape. Let me tell you all a little story I always was a person who ran away from my problems and/or quit things. YouTube has been something I can say I was consistent with. I was so proud of myself, then I quit. I didn't start YouTube to quit that is for sure.
So be on the look out for new videos this year.

Music by Loot Fendi

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Tuesday, January 28, 2020

Why I love being a mother? Part 2

Why I love being a mother? Part 2

I wrote a blog post about" Why it's so hard being mother?" You can check it out here.  So I decided to write a part two.
Why I love being a mother? I love being a mother because it is the joy to my life when my children's eyes light and they are so excited to see me when I come back from not being around each other. I love being a mother because they are a blessing to my life. They motivate me to become the best version of myself. I love being a mother because it gives my life purpose. I love our conversations. I love when they draw me things, when they make things for me and bring pick flowers for me. I love hearing them laugh when they play. I love everything about being a mother and wouldn't change anything for the world. They are my life.

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Tuesday, January 14, 2020

Words of encouragement: Moms with no support

Words of encouragement for mother's who have zero support system.

 I can relate, I had my first child at the age of sixteen, I made the decision to raise her on my own. Without the help of my extended family. Because I made that choice to have a child. To this day I still am raising my daughters without my extended family's help. There are many reasons why I choose no support from my family, which I can't mention here. But like I said before I made that choice to have children so I take full responsibility to raise my children. I do have my partner who is the only support system I have right now. He does an amazing job. I know there are mothers like me out there who have no support or a single parent for whatever reason. Let me tell you this I know it's hard and sometimes it get to a point you break down. That moment you feel like breaking down when you feel like you are being torn down use that to love on your children even more. Use that to raise successful children. Use all of it to keep pushing to being the best mom you know how to be. Use that to be that support you are not getting. Use that to teach your children what you were not taught  and teach them everything  you know so they won't make the same mistakes. Trust me, there will be a light at the end of the tunnel. It will be all worth it at the end.

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